New Age Spiritual Rockin Blues - My Take
This video is based on an article I wrote a while ago explaining the roots of my music and how I came to express it in the manner I do. I am an
aficionado of Rockin Blues and have been all my life. I am also an aficionado of Spiritual Inspiratioanal music that has a message for my Heart and Soul as these are my primary guides through life. Putting them together with messages from my Higher Self and Guides seemed easy enough in the beginning and has now evolved to the state where it's the only kind of music I produce. This explains how I got there.
This blog is about bringing psychology and spirituality together as two distinct yet imtimately related dimensions of our life experience. We cannot truly benefit from one at the expense of the other. Both are part and parcel of our universal experience. If we want to grow and open ourselves to the higher spiritual dimensions we need to clean out our psychological closets. As long as we're in a body our psychology plays a signficant role in attaining true Universal Consciousness.
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Choice Making
CHOICEMAKING
Maurice Turmel PhD - The Spiritual Psychologist
Maurice Turmel PhD - The Spiritual Psychologist
(This article on ChoiceMaking has been published on several sites and locations throughout the web since first released in early 2003. It is being re-published here to coincide with this year's TEDx conference in Toronto who's theme is "Making Choices")
We all assume that making choices is a simple process. We see what's in
front of us and we choose the best option. That's the way it goes in this
choicemaking process. But what if it were not that simple? Because, let's face
it, people make the wrong choices every day. The wrong girlfriend! The wrong
boyfriend! The wrong destination! The wrong colors, and so on.
Choicemaking is not as simple as it may seem. Smokers continue to smoke.
Drinkers continue to exist, would they?
Look At Your
Own Life For A Few Moments
See if all your choices have been wise ones. Is there a repeating choice
occurring that still produces the same negative result? Why are you still
making it? When it comes to Life Choices, then we see that this process is not
as simple as choosing the right candy, or movie, or other form of
entertainment.
Truly FREE
Choicemaking is based on Personal Characteristics, Prehistory and Personal
Awareness.
How aware are you of your Prehistory to determine why you may be making
the same faulty choices over and over again? Why does a woman continue to
choose the same type of abusive man? Why does a man continually succumb to the
definitions and desires of others? There's no choice in such examples, only
repeating patterns!
But The Fact
Is: There is choice
Choicemaking still goes on, even if it's outside our conscious awareness.
A part of us is making choices based on - prehistory, old patterns or a
familiar expectation like "I never get what I want" or, something
similar.
These Are
Some of the Common Denominators of Prehistory
As a child you React to your environment. You adopt the Status Quo, that
is, how things work in your family of origin. You make unconscious choices
based on Survival Value. "If my dad always yells at me when I need
something, then I won't "need" and won't ask anymore."
And you give up trying to get that Need Met! Repeat this a few dozen
times and see how many things you have given up. And worse, you start
convincing yourself "you don't really need it at all!"
The more dysfunctional your Family of Origin is, the more Reactive and
Unconscious your choices tend to be. And this is the root of all negative choices.
Very few people would consciously choose a situation or pattern with a
guaranteed negative outcome. So called "common sense" is about
hindsight and stating the obvious. The fact that so many choices are made at a
subconscious level, cancels out any so-called fruitful effects of "common
sense."
Patterns
Return, Familiarity Seems Safer,
Only Because
These Are Known
Making a choice for a better Life is tantamount to a Crisis. It certainly
is a Crisis for the Part of You that makes your unconscious choices! Some call
this part
your "survival side" or your "inner tyrant."He, she, or It, has a big investment in maintaining Control. So you "doze off" or "go numb" when an important Critical Choice has to be made. You re 'still making a choice, only you are "choosing not to choose." And the necessary choice is relegated to your Unconscious Self. You "allow" this unconscious "protector/controller" self to make the choice for you. And then, you see the Same Old Negative Result.Once again confirming "You Are the Victim of Forces Beyond Your Control!"
your "survival side" or your "inner tyrant."He, she, or It, has a big investment in maintaining Control. So you "doze off" or "go numb" when an important Critical Choice has to be made. You re 'still making a choice, only you are "choosing not to choose." And the necessary choice is relegated to your Unconscious Self. You "allow" this unconscious "protector/controller" self to make the choice for you. And then, you see the Same Old Negative Result.Once again confirming "You Are the Victim of Forces Beyond Your Control!"
What Has to
Happen on a Conscious Level
for This
Pattern to Change?
"Know Thyself" is the key phrase here. And this is no small
order. Even well trained Psychologists can have a tyrannical unconscious self to deal with. It is critical to get to the bottom of this though. One has to see that those unconscious choices:
order. Even well trained Psychologists can have a tyrannical unconscious self to deal with. It is critical to get to the bottom of this though. One has to see that those unconscious choices:
a) exist and;
b) no longer work.
What once had survival value, during childhood, has now become a
detriment to your healthy development as an adult. We’ve all had occasion to
say: "he's acting like a child again." Or, “I felt like a child who
needed her mother.” These are common enough experiences for all of us to relate
to.
The Primary
Sign of True Adult Development is Emotional Maturity
This includes the ability to make choices based on the evidence at hand,
and not the "programs" from one's prehistory. True Freedom comes when
one's childhood, hurtful past is laid to rest. Freedom comes when we take hold
of ourselves and declare: "I'm making the decisions from now on -not my
old Childhood Self- not my Abused and Frightened Self - not my Victim Self,or
any part of me that came into being before I could make conscious choices.In a
safe environment we grow up capable of making informed choices.We are allowed
to be ourselves.
In
Dysfunctional Environments, Conscious Choicemaking is Absent
We react. We resist. We counterattack. And we become passive-aggressive.
We identify ourselves as victims, because we feel victimized. And we make
limited, uninformed choices based on these need do to survive this
stress?"
replaces "What choice would I like to make at this time?" We come to believe that: "we are what is happening to us" The Victim -The Abused One - The Abandoned One, and so on.
replaces "What choice would I like to make at this time?" We come to believe that: "we are what is happening to us" The Victim -The Abused One - The Abandoned One, and so on.
Name your Poisonous Identity. These are factual results of various types
of domestic tyranny. There are hundreds of self-help books addressing each one
of these results.
How do You
Change a Reactive Choice to a Free Choice?
You become aware of who you are. Of what happened to you as a child, and
what you need now to correct this. You make Conscious Choices to better your
life. You seek out resources that will help you untie all these psychological
and emotional knots. You Choose to open our self up to the Inner You, the
person you are, or could be, had none of the above happened. You choose to get
in touch with your full potential, and to clean out all the garbage that no
longer belongs. You are choosing Your Freedom!
This Could
Be A Long Process Indeed
What's your alternative? To live out your life as a pattern of
prepackaged reactions that were triggered by others? Or, to live your life as
it could be, given what you now know about cleaning up messes?
I made my commitment 40 years ago, and I still work at it. But it's not
so hard anymore, and I have had some fun along the way. I actually enjoyed
untangling those knots. As I needed certain things, they came along in one form
or another, a good Counselor, a Friend, Great Books, an Inspiring Movie, and so
on. As I learned to take responsibility and own my feelings, things improved. I
improved. I got stronger. I benefitted from these conscious choices. As I
learned to overcome defeat and curtail negative self-references, I gained
self-esteem.
As I realized that a part of me ( the tyrant) seemed programmed to harm
me, I took away its power and claimed it for myself.
This Is The
Hero's Journey From Mythology
Into the Heart of Darkness we go, past the Guard Dog "Cerebus"
(inner tyrant) to recover our Essential Self, and become what we can be.It is a
long and difficult journey at times, but well worth it in the end. I wouldn't
trade my journey for any other experience. That's the level of my commitment
and the rewards that come with it.
Whatever it takes. Wherever I need to go. I'll do it. Because, I'm worth
it. AND SO ARE YOU!!!
Are you ready to commit to the Full Expression of your Being? Then Time
to Get Moving – The Choice is Yours!
New Age Spiritual Rockin Blues
New Age
Spiritual Rockin Blues
Maurice Turmel
PhD
It is a documented fact that Blues style music was taken up by
white Americans in the 50s as the then dominant White Music Industry clearly
recognized its power to move and engage people. Despite the fact that the White
music industry chose to sanitize it for mass audience consumption, the approach
still carried enough of that Blues flavor to excite and animate a new
population of post war children. That’s when Rock and Roll (a phrase coined by
Black artists in the 40s) became a mantra for a new generation, the one I grew
up with, as have most North Americans in today’s over 55 population.
My songs, which are served up in this Rockin Blues fashion, come
from my heart and, I believe, the Great Beyond, where New Age Spiritual Music
resides. I also feel that my music comes from the very same place, emotionally
speaking, that was charted by Jerry Lee Lewis, Fats Domino, The Platters, and oh
yes, Elvis, to name a few. It is this Rockin Blues Beat that I've borrowed to
create the musical foundation for the messages I receive daily from my Guidance.
Through my Heart and Feeling Centre is how my Higher Self encourages me to
express myself poetically and through music. This is my Source of Inner Truth
and what I rely on to take me through life as my contribution to this Shifting Age
in human history. Who would have thought that I would be creating such music at
this point in my life, now in my mid 60s? Certainly not I.
I can also assert that New Age Spiritual Rockin Blues and
Psychological Development go hand in hand. They have been part of my life for
over 5 decades, as the marriage of 10 years training for a PhD in Counseling
Psychology and a lifelong passion for music. I recognize that these two components
rely on each other to teach us about ourselves through our emotional responses.
At first we are drawn in with the beat. Once we surrender to this soulful vibration,
the message in the lyrics makes its way to our heart and feeling center.
Because we have opened up, we can receive the song's deeper message. As we are
touched, moved and swept along, we are now in a position to change our lives
for the better. It is true that a lot of current music is about Anarchy and
Devolution, but that is not the case with New Age Spiritual Rockin Blues. This
music lifts us up. And as one recognizes the lyrical message supports the truth
of one’s soul, it puts us in touch with the Divine within.
Musical vibrations engage us at a cellular level and help us open
to our deepest Self. They help us feel our lives and our connection to Source
at this core level of being. By following their vibrational call, they help us
identify what is ours to bear, in terms of life challenges and wounds to heal,
while ultimately preparing us for a life of service. New Age Spiritual Music
makes it easier for us to surrender to our Inner Truth and hear our personal Guidance.
Personal and Spiritual growth is all there is you see, and
Spiritual Rockin Blues can help you grow to your fullest potential. If these
sounds truly resonate with your inner being then nothing can excite you more
than music with a beat that is a symbol to your Soul. This music, for me, is a
symbol of God’s Love that generates feelings of Gratitude, Expansion and Growth
within. This Call to Awakening then presents us with the opportunity of advancing
ourselves through our innermost passions and abilities. “Follow Your Bliss”
Joseph Campbell has advised.
Here we can speak of Musical Bliss, which is music's power to
open us up. By seeking out such music, we align ourselves with our highest
vibrations. These then provide us with a view of ourselves from a different
perspective, a higher perspective I would suggest. Such a view can be awesome,
stupendous, and even scary - because through such a view can we see ourselves
soar beyond limits imposed by our society. This brings us back to the
revolutionary nature of this music, how it was born in the 40s and 50s via the Black
American experience, only to be taken up by White North American kids gearing
up for a revolution of their own.
When we add to this Rock’n Roll revolution the sound of a Reggae
Beat, then we see another parallel to the suffering that Black American Blues
showed us, but this time in the lives of repressed Jamaicans. I was introduced
to Reggae in 1965 when visiting Jamaica as a young 20 year old with the
Canadian Navy. It was the sounds and lyrics of Bob Marley and company that
grabbed my attention then and I have been a devotee every since.
Alongside the new crop of White American Rock’n Roll Stars,
there emerged another group of artists ready to blend this blues and reggae
music and acknowledge their depth and feel. This was the British Invasion of
the 60s and 70s, with bands such as Cream, The Rolling Stones, The Animals and
The Police as examples. There were also some great White North American Blues
Artists that helped bring this music
forward, (e.g. Paul Butterfield Blues Band, Jake Eells Blues Band and Dutch Mason
Blues Band), but they never became mainstream like the British Rockers did.
New Age Spiritual Inspiration Music with a Rockin / Blues /
Reggae feel is the path I have chosen to follow. When you listen to my songs
you will also hear traces of American Country Rock like the Eagles, 1950s Country
Artists such as Carl Perkins and Johnny Cash, cowboy artists like The Sons of
the Pioneers and Gene Autry, and the late great Hank Williams Sr who screamed
“achy breaky heart” long before Billy Rae Cyrus. This is the musical soup I
have been steeped in and the foundation upon which I have grown my musical
compositions as I tied them to my psychology training, professional clinical
experience and personal
spiritual growth efforts.
Am I a New Age Artist? Yes to that! Can I be considered a Christian artist?
Some would say yes. Personally, I resonate more with Native Spirituality and their reference to The Great Creator who animates all life, including ourselves. However, there is no excluding how the Word of God presents
itself to me through this music, be it Native Spirituality, Christian flavored, New Age Rockin Blues,
Reggae influenced or other. I celebrate Life from the inside out and in many
respects this music becomes a prayer from my Soul to God's Heart. I invite you
to judge for yourself. Have a listen and tell me how you feel. The proof is in
the pudding as they say, so dig in!
There are a number of music videos posted here at The Spiritual Psychologist. For my complete inventory follow the link below.
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